The Purpose Of Wrong A Relationship
“The purpose of a wrong relationship is to pull you from the true dream and vision God has planted in your spirit. Any relationship that’s not your family that continually drains you instead of pouring into you is a distraction to you. A true companion will always impart instead of tear apart. And will bless you and never curse you. Remember, that lust is blind love is kind.”-Perry Stone
After reading the above quote by Pastor Perry Stone I really took a moment to meditate on this. The one thing we all seem to forget is what the devils mission is…to Steal, Kill, & to destroy. What exactly is he after? He is after your destiny!! He knows that if you ever find out who you are, whose you are, and what you were born to do..that only brings more into the kingdom of God. See your destiny is not simply elevate you..but there is an “audience” that you were brought here to serve! Always test the “spirit” to see if it from God..cause a wrong relationship can cost you dearly!! The problem is, generally when you finally realize it, the devil has already made off with your greatness.
How to know when God has ordained a union!
When two people come together…the flesh has choices to make. These choices generally comes as a result of issues, circumstances that show up during the course of the relationship, good or bad. The flesh usually immediately begins to tell the mind what should happen next.
Then there is the soul. The soul is made up of our mind/will/emotions. Now based off our circumstances and experiences with a person we determine which way OUR WILL will take us. The problem is our mind & emotions are involved in this stage..generally because a soul tie has been created (sexually) with that person so confusion creeps in. This generally when you hear a person talking about love being complicated, hard to understand etc…
So the determining part of you…the spirit…is where you should seek your answer of if the relationship is ordained by God. See your spirit has no confusion dwelling in it for it is the place where Christ/Father have set up their dwelling place within you as the HOLY SPIRIT. There is no confusion dwelling there. Only in your spirit is where the Father speaks to you because He s Spirit. So take your emotions and lay them to the side…take your mind(human logic) and lay it to the side…and take your will and trash it..because what God has willed for your life can’t be topped!
In your spirit God (in a still small voice) reveals His plan for your life as you get to know more and more about Him. That includes who the love of your life is. Don’t get entangled in your emotions to determine what’s real vs what’s not in His plan. If that man/woman is for you..it will be beyond your soul..no matter what you do..move on, get married, have kids…there will still lie in your spirit the best plan for your life..but you CHOSE something different. Didn’t mean your life wasn’t good, just mean it wasn’t your best life!
Can you handle that?!