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These are MY words! I only wonder what her heart is screaming at times! Again MY words!

Hmmm! It’s February 2009…and my life just changed!! It’s fight number 13425321456432244, but this one has been found out! What do I do now?!!!

He wouldn’t tell the truth, and I wouldn’t let it go! Now here we are…restraining orders, aching hearts, replacement lovers, and tears!!! Jah help me please!!!

I can’t breathe! I can’t sleep at night without you by my side! 3yrs has been far too long..but we are so different now! The world still hates you…and I’m now and forever in the I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT ME MODE! But you…you still seem a bit unhappy! I lost my best friend, the love of my life and I lost my Gran Gran! Where the weed at?!!!

Your friends say tell them what happened for real in 2009? Huh? Yea what happened? Only you, me, & Jah knows…so what’s the truth? Did I jump on you and you defended yourself? Was I the one who received the text that sent you through the roof? Did I finish the job you started and beat myself worse? Cause surely I hated you the whole time?! Ughhhh …swimming pool full of liquor please let me dive in! I want to go numb!

You spite me I return the favor but its vicious cause I’m better at it…why won’t you just listen!!!!! You young you time to wife me up…whose are them?! I’m on tour, you’re promoting your want me on an album cover ill do it?!! My relationship with you brought me my first #1 album…well hopefully I get USHERED(confessions went diamond)..but if I never got a number 1 album am I a failure? Billboard was calling me saying I broke records before this album…but hey! I will risk it all (I have) to see you on top! Lets unseat the king/queen! Oh wait I leaked the pic of myself to tmz in ‘09! It’s all a conspiracy to ruin you!

I lied on Oprah about still loving you, so I could pry you away from your girlfriend! I’m horrible! Because I CONTROL your heart! Okay I give ALL BACK! I admit I am headstrong..and after ‘09 it’s worse..I am not a victim..that’s the truth! Don’t cry for me! I can take an L! What I can’t take is seeing you being used and people really believing I’m the one doing it!

I’m so frustrated, and so stubborn! The problem is you’re the same! You want to be single, I don’t…and I won’t compromise! You want to wait till you have provided for every member in your crew and I’m thinking until mama J and your immediate are good? You are right we have different wants & needs! People change and we couldn’t expect to just pick up where we left off! There is no bridge to walk over here…we have to swim!!! Are we equipped to finish this…(Drink)?! Do we want to (Drink)?! The world says NO! (Dive In) flashes of greatness go before my eyes..Whitney, Michael, ..that’s not our fate!

So what’s the truth?! I know what I believe? You know what you believe..our friends believe what we told them? So that leaves Jah! Lord help us! -Robyn

The mark of a man of God destined to be a husband is his ability to take the blame for the sins/wrongs of his wife to be! He discusses it with her..but he takes responsibility! Just as Christ did for the church and gave HIMSELF for her..and HE IS SEATED AT THE RIGHT AND OF THE FATHER! To expose the church(woman) to the world causes a death(or pain for all) to repent and take responsibility is eternal life! Read Genesis 2-3

Chris let God be the judge between you and her…the world has no RIGHT to do it!



@AngelaSimmons Talks Love with @YMCMB_BW

Hey guys,

Recently, I was thinking it would be interesting to share different perspectives on love and life from those around me. I think we all can relate to these topics as we continue to grow as individuals (progress, not perfection!) and thought it would be cool to begin a Q&A series. Recently I talked to Bow about his thoughts on love and relationships. Here’s what he had to say:

How would you describe yourself in a relationship?
I’m cool laid back. Don’t really trip much. I’m the only child so it’s like I’m used to doing things on my own. So I don’t mind cleaning and all that. I don’t let my woman do all the work, I don’t believe in that. I just roll with the flow.

What would your dream date be?
You know what I really wouldn’t know. I ain’t been on a date in so long… My dates aren’t dates — like if I hit you to invite you out, it’s usually to the club or a game or something. It’s a fun atmosphere. I ain’t know people still did those traditional dinner dates with the flower in the center of table. Haha

What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?
I can’t remember the last date I been on. But I never had a bad experience with a woman we when we out.

What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Looks, smarts, attitude… all that is important. She gotta have a job and just play her role. Be loyal and we all good.

What are some of your pet peeves in a relationship?
I hate doing things a woman might want me to do. Like, that’s why you like me is because of who I am. Don’t change me, because I’m not looking to change you. Don’t ask me a million questions. I hate being drilled because of her insecurities.

What’s a deal breaker for you in a relationship?
Going through my phone.

What’s a common mistake you think a lot of couples make?
Not being open and honest and just experiencing things together to make the relationship stay fresh and new.

What do you value in a partner/relationship?
The love, the bond, the not being alone. I value her. Oh yeah… and the sex ha!

What’s something you’ve learned from previous relationships?
Sometimes you better off single. That’s real.

Love is…
POWERFUL. Be cautious who you use that word with.

What’s something you’ve learned from previous relationships? Share with me below!
XO, Angela

I really wish Bow Wow would sit his butt down because Angela is definitely,seemingly, a great fit for him!

Angela Simmons




Ephesians 5:3 – ‘But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it
 not be once named among you, as becometh saints; Neither filthiness, nor
 foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of 
The bedroom should not be a “friendly” discussion. I know there are times when married friends want to get advice or counsel about their bedroom habits, or singles may mention things they “wish” they had as far as intimacy goes. But you have to be careful how you expose yourself to your friends. For married women, it is dangerous to talk too much about your intimacy with your husband to your girlfriends. You may be getting them “curious” and not even know it. You could be turning the lights on for them and they see your HUSBAND standing there! Do not create a vivid picture of your husband’s sexuality to anyone. No one is to be trusted with the knowledge of your man’s sexual performance. And single women, do not talk about sex to your friends. You can share general stuff and surface stuff, but the more you dig into your past, PRESENT, or future sexual encounters, the more you tempt yourself to betray your God ordained abstinence.

Fellas, stop trying to make your homies think you are the bomb sexually! God ain’t in that mess and you know it. Get your life under control and stop bragging on your wicked past like “you were the bomb until you got saved!” The more you talk, the more your mind will wander. And then you may find yourself wanting to go back and resolve some of those “failed attempts!” Why are you discussing it if you can’t do it? You must keep your conversations clean and Christian! Stop talking about what you could’ve, would’ve, should’ve done and keep your thoughts pure before God. You cannot be sexually active as a single believer and stay a true believer so there is no need to harp on it! Be careful what you discuss and how you rehearse sexual topics with your friends. It could turn from good to bad in a matter of minutes. And things that you thought you had under control could come back to consume you. Remember, death and life is in the power of your tongue!

Suggested Reading: 2Tim. 2:16, 1Cor. 15:33, Prov. 18:21, James 3:6

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